A throwback SL celebration

A special throwback 10th Anniversary celebration in Shangri-La Hotel on last Sunday. Super busy these few days and super lazy to write so i'll skip the details and replace it with all the photos taken during the event.

There's actually more pictures to show but it's too much of a hassle transferring all the photos from one folder to another.

Stop drooling. More to come

Awesome till drop

Despite her age, Deborah still looking gorgeous, as always. 

They are top notch

Mai handsome boy

Mai two chio bu-s

Sweet couple take 1

Sweet couple plus 1 take 2

Sweet couple take 3

Here's a random one. They are not in a pair. 

Damn photogenic la this fake Shila Amzah.

Kal came and jumped on my laps wanted to join us for the photo session. 

She's fat. And i love fat kids.

Imagine my fear doing this after a year

Three of us

Bye!

I love Shangri-La.

Day 88

As the night comes, it's the time when I get to be overly sentimental especially when I'm driving without heading to any specific destinations.i love how peaceful it gets as the sky turns dark, not in this city though. I mostly wish I could go out and walk around..

Thing changes when emotional hits. 
And today, I give in to despair and started blending myself into the muddle puddle sort of thinking I can't pull myself back. Perhaps, I should allow it once in a while.

I wish I could ask you just a simple question without actually expect you to answer.
Just three simple words: how are you?
I wish you well.

And here i'm contemplating..

If only I was given another chance to choose. 
Yes, if only.

A short note for this night

A year ago, i had you. You made my life complete. Then you left me with million pieces scattering all over the floor. I confess to have intentionally made myself slipped into downward spiral but thank god i have made a conscious decision to turn over a new leaf. I started to write songs about my feelings. Well i have to say, this is quite addictive. I'm feeling better by expressing out my feelings in words, then it becomes a song to sing. It has made me better at controlling my emotions whenever i think of you. I will feel as if something is missing when i stop composing. 

I'm sorry for not able to forgive you still. I hate you when i'm still loving you.

I Am Sorry

I AM Sorry,

If i'm the worst girl you ever come across with.

I AM sorry,

For can't bring myself to forgive you still,
when i myself have been forgiven for all the wrong decisions i have made.

I AM Sorry,

For taking you as the first memory of love.

I AM Sorry,

For not able to completely forget you,
It's not something that is easy to do for me,
Maybe it will be,
One day in the future,
When i'm done picking up the missing pieces,
You once left them scattering all around the floor.

I AM Sorry,

For having a happier life than you once gave me, back in the past.

Oh You~

This poetry is written by a friend of mine in another circle and so kind of him dedicated this to me. 
Written by: Liam

Untitled lol

Oh your eyes...
Those beautiful, sparkling eyes,
The source of all her passions,
The teller of no lies.

Oh your lips...
Those soft and tender lips,
Where upon the glass of life,
You savour and you sip.

Oh your hair...
Your sunlit beautiful hair,
That drapes upon your shoulders,
Showing perfection, oh so rare.

Oh your face...
Your stunning, beguiling face,
Where heaven can be sought,
And God can be embraced.

Oh your form...
Your delicate, slender form,
In dreams, beside me lay...
So tender and so warm.

Oh your soul...
Your gentle caring soul,
That longs for love in life,
Yet, life just can't console.

Oh God, Oh you ...
With your imperfections much,
Yet, when I think of love,
It's your soul I long to touch.


Well written. 
P/S: I don't mind pinjam anyone of you who needs a poetry to kaolui.

Photo before meal

Sorry for being so vulgar as i guess i need to let off some steam. Was in a rage about something that always happen on me over and over again.

This post IS referring to someone in particular..or to be exact is MOST of them who have this kinda habit of taking photo before you eat. I'll be all fine if we are going to somewhere very special or the foods or meals are uniquely decorated but hey! Kopitiam? Mamak? KFC? Mcdonald? or PASAR MALAM chinese char kuey teow stall?

I always have this problem going out with the particular group of friends and this day i was mad hungry i could eat a horse. We settled down in this casual dining restaurant and started to order with the menu in each.

Drinks being served first after 20 minutes of waiting before our meal. Four of us in total. All girls.
A's came first. Followed by B's and mine, which is about 5 minutes later. As A was about to use her spoon to taste the soup and i was all ready to wolf down my food, B shouted, in a rather harsh voice saying :

" HEY NO! DON'T EAT FIRST ! WAIT TILL C's COME FIRST THEN WE TAKE A GROUP PHOTO OF OUR FOODS !"

*Rolling my eyes
I then said : But i'm hungry and are you serious? Taking picture of THESE foods?
B said: Wait for a while can? Very fast. Don't eat first ( as she started to move our foods and drinks to the middle of table and arrange them in a way with her so called artistic talents. )

A then added : Okay then but at least let me try my soup first? (Lifting a spoonful of soup into her mouth)
C replied : Ok and please put your spoon aside and arrange the prawn back to the same spot.

So now A agreed with this idiotic act and even stupid enough to ask if she can taste HER soup first. HEY WHO PAY FOR YOUR MEAL? STOP EATING JUST BECAUSE PEOPLE ASK YOU NOT TO?

Insanity.

I mean, ASIANS,
Tell me what's special about curry mee, wantan noodles, fried rice and chicken rice ? Aren't you eat those foods almost everyday in your life? I have no idea what's the fascination is with ZEALOUSLY taking pictures of all the foods but trust me, there are a lot of FOODS you really don't need to take photo of unless you're in a best restaurant with the best foods in town and i tell you, i would absolutely do the same and even don't mind standing on the table in my long dress with heels for the perfect shooting angle! Not only that it's also an act of disrespect and humility. I find it funny when i see a group of girls standing up and start taking photos of their foods with their phone when the rest eating their foods with relish and can't be bothered much to even take out their phone. I don't want that unnecessary attention from people and if you girls do that, means i am categorized as one of these people who have INTENSE ENTHUSIASM in taking a picture of WHATEVER come on! Get a life !

If you're one of these people, I don't mind you letting me know and reject my meal invitation. I will definitely curse you to death if you try taking a picture of curry mee infront of me.

Or,

maybe you have a strong passion in taking food pictures i have no comment about that. If yes, take your own enough. Leave my meal alone.


*******
A few hours later....
I saw that picture posted up in her instagram with the caption...


" A simple meal for us in this evening. " 



SINCERELY......

FUCK U

I do not own this picture. This is a picture taken by other people.

The half bridge of hope

Wrote a poem to express my current feeling, if only you get what i mean.

Standing on the boulder,
5000 ft above the ground,
Stuck between two cliffs,
So far apart from each.

Somehow you appeared,
Right at the opposite cliff, 
You have thrown your pride,
For me to be by your side.

Through the months you've tried,
Building the bridge,
As you walk on it.
To connect our cliffs.

Another starry night again,
I began to wonder,  
The place opposite my way,
Is not where i want to go.

I made my clearest decision,
To put an end to the confusion.
When you're just about to complete,
tying the last knot for the bridge.

From a distance i can see,
In the dark silence, the hatred towards me,
It's better to leave it incomplete,
Than burning the whole bridge, shouldn't we?

The half bridge of hope,
With the thick white of rope,
Slowly it vanishes, 
High up between the stones.


Written on 22-03-14
7.18pm

Gender stereotypes

So this day i got a message from Alvis asking if i'm interested to go for the Emirates cabin crew interview in March.( Click on the link if you're interested ).

I wasn't that close with Alvis anyway and i'm sometimes guilty as charge of being so judgemental towards others especially with their job. The first thing came into my mind when he asked was : OMG is he gay ? 

( act cute selfie profile pic somemore sorry lah Alvis if you're reading this ). I was told that majority of male flight attendants are not straight because a straight or career-oriented guy will less likely do this for a living. ( The other reason might be they want to make more fast money that can't guarantee their future career path ). 

Because,

Most of the guys are more interested in a career that's related with their profession or industry field ( unless they are not good at ANYTHING - I mean..not good at things that involve creative and logical thinking, in short, they use their face to make money only sorry to be mean ) and often focusing on long term career opportunities and these kind of people don't mind to start from a low pay job as long as they can see their future is guaranteed with a higher pay and post. Yes, they definitely will. I always believe that hard work does pay off but of course you have to be very smart in choosing your career path at the first place.

Sexism against men? Not sure if i'm using it correctly at here but what i'm trying to say is,

things will be totally different if it's for girls especially when we are talking about serving customers in the plane.

Argggg no idea how to explain but you can try to ask around and the answer i got when i did was: 

A: Hey my friend Catherine is currently working with XX Airlines as a cabin crew.

The rest : Whoaaaaa so geng ley she must be very tall and pretty! Photo pls !

A: Hey my friend Matthew is one of the flight crews in XX Airlines.

The rest : Huh? Handsome ah? But....is he gay? 

Don't get offended. I might be wrong. I'm totally fine with that I just don't understand why there's a huge difference of perspective when it comes to the same occupation for different gender.

Apparently we are living in a world of segregation when society stereotypes and gives the genders a definition. They tell you who you are instead of what you really are.

Like:

Girls cannot drive properly wan

Girls cannot do reverse parking wan

Girls must get married and give birth

Girls with big boobs are basically stupid 

NO LOR! 

And....

Guys who wear shorts above knee and deep V T confirm gay

Guys who look extremely cute.......sorry, confirm gay

Guys who show off their half naked 8 abs confirm gay

Guys who 走路夹屁股 ( words my friends love to use ) confirm gay

Guys must pay for girls on a date

Guys must become the financial provider in his family

Guys must buy a car....
He has big eyes.......GAY
He has long fingers......GAY
He is soft spoken........GAY
He stares at hot guy......GAY
He has Ab.... GAY!
He has fair sk....GAY!!! GAY!!!GAY!!!!! 

LOL! I have a lot of gay close friends i love them a lot and i know they love me too!

bla bla bla

Back to the point. Sounds unfair kan? 

A : Hey jessyca look at this cute guy, he has a lot of selfies in his instagram..

Me: Har? ...confirm gay. 

I shall admit i'm one of the streotypical girls. Sadly there's no cure for this. Accept and live with it. 

Make Peace No War ha ! 

Guys you shouldn't date

This is not meant to offend anyone and i'm not referring to anyone in particular, just simply write out my thought and ideas from my friends who have actually given me a lot funnier characters you shouldn't even consider the first place i decided to put it all together at here.

Here are the self-compilation type of guys you SHOULDN'T date or even give a slight consideration when you know they want to be more than friend with you :

Guys who:

1) Refuse or give many excuses to send you home and here i'm talking about the short 15-30 minutes driving distance in between

2) Think twice or look reluctant when they are asked to send you home

3) Smoke ( Be prepared for the bad breath when kissing ) 

4) Gamble. Don't expect them to pay the bills when they have more debts to take care of.

5) Tuck their shirt in. ( Not in a fashion way )

6) Ask you to pay for the meal without any particular reasons.

7) Jokingly ask you to pay for a very lame reason and they literally MADE you pay for it.

8) Never offer to pay. 

9) Ask you out and drop you off at the train station when it's time to go home.

10) Is a social media freak. 

11) Wear makeup with the green or blue color lenses. 

12) Brag about how great their past relationship was, job, wealth, or how good or likable they are.

13) Have no SENSE of direction and expect you to be their GPS.

14) Always ask you to decide whenever they bring you out.

      Guy: Hey Where you wanna go?

      Girl : Hmmm...i have no idea.....what about you pick a place for dinner? 

      Guy: Hmmm.....I have no idea too. Let's make some extra rounds so that you have more time to decide.

      Girl : *&%#$*&*&%*@*#%*

15) Have dirty fingernails.

16) Like SELFIE ! Paling betahan pls becareful lor these people confirm gay 

17) Was an ex flight crew. They are either gay or NO talent at all. WHY?

18) Cross the road leaving you behind waiting for another car to pass

19) Over-surprised guy. Imagine the scenario:

      Guy : Hey guess where am i?

      Girl : ( Pooping in the toilet ) Hm where?

      Guy: Surprise! I'm behind of you!!

20) Stare at your boobs during the first meet

21) Drive too fast.

22) Drive too slow.

23) Jobless at the age of 35 without any savings

25) Wear gothic finger ring in 5 out of 10 fingers

26) Ask money from you for more than twice

27) Wear the same shirt/pants for the entire week

28) Always forget where they park their car 

29) Married before

30) Have kids and expecting you to breastfeed them

31) Expect you to do everything during the date. ( Ask for menu ask for bill ask for toilet ask for direction reason being : He's shy.

As i mentioned earlier this is not personal attacking anyone and i'm only contributing PART ( which is most of the ideas) and the rest are from the other girls who ARE and AREN'T single.

But of course, not all girls think in the same way/

I know some of you might think who am i to choose when i'm not perfect enough but go ahead and judge idc. I'm just being kind enough to give you the information because you know, now hor, girls are pretty hard to please ley plus the 30 points i have mentioned earlier are quite agreeable lor...

Lastly...

Too bad if you're one of them.

BYE!

SO Sien..

*Sniff sniff* My room smells so good I wish the technology of scent transmission eva existed to let you know how nice it is to stay in my room right now.

I was supposed to start writing this an hour ago but the internet wasn’t working at all I went totally berserk and kept cursing whatever in my sight and could have strangled the dog that was barking next door.

******

It was around 11.30 when Alvin was being so kind enough to drop me off at Goodwood Park as I have agreed to meet Crystal up for a drink. Her boyfriend then appeared, which was another 2 hours later to pick us up for a super late night supper at Geylang. *And now the fk blue circle keeps spinning next to my cursor….

Blood boiling…...

Lift my arms at it’s highest and throw my laptop on the floor with a bit of force. 

MUAHAHAHAHAH!

5 minute-action would've caused me a whopping 500 for the repair cost.

Not till that extent. I didn’t do that. I have enough bills to pay.

So when we were heading to the place this bugger made fun of me ( accustomed to being teased by him anyway ) but not infront of people I barely know.

“That day after I read your blog about the mini piano I was about to get you something similar when I walked past a toyshop with Hucco. As I took a clearer look at the price which was around 45 dollars we came to an agreement that you don’t really worth that much of money.

So, we left.”

Everyone laughed at the bad joke but me.

OOI!  臭阿伟！不好笑咯！

As we settled down in one of the long tables for 5 people in this Dimsum restaurant they started order the foods like they haven’t eaten in years. They ordered every item in triple (dude can you imagine that) and it kinda stressed me out worrying if we could finish as my bloated tummy still filled with the fish and chips from Clarke Quay not too long ago. As it turned out, the dimsum was surprisingly delicious once again I was so full I could barely breathe and was guilty as charged ( NO HEAVY MEAL after 8pm ) for stuffing too much when my stomach became as round as the panda bear. ( I suppose panda is the closest you can get to describe the cute animal with big tummy.)

I would’ve merlion-ed the whole car if I were to stay a little longer before reaching back my room.

Not only I able to finally taste something nice at Geylang, was also eating all free, courtesy of Anthony, the typical-singaporean-full-of-swagness who never think twice about his purchase, I would say, in a good way.

THANKS LA HA!

To repay your kindness I have approved your friend request on Facebook and follow-ed your instagram. *wink

*******

And this day...

I was walking in the Bugis street and a crowd of people at the opposite road caught my attention so I went to gepoh for a while.

I assumed it might be some kind of public live show introducing about something obviously I am not interested and I could never understand what people would find of interest taking pictures and recording some public figures who aren’t that famous with the hot sun beaming down on earth. ( not like they are Taylor Swift or Wang Lee Hom that sort of talented people cheh).

With scant interest I just can’t be bothered to stand a little longer because honestly I don’t give a shyit of how famous these people really are but I’m totally amazed by this awesome shot taken by Alvin.

Okay wait...maybe let's try the closer look....

爆青根？？

Told you! It's hot out there ! Get a life people ! 

Back to my place I kept having the urge to find out who's that guy standing next to the pink hair aunty because of how completely perfect his look is. Out of nowhere I was told that he has a nickname called Shane with the surname starts with P but not exactly knowing it so I went to google it to try my luck out of randomness to see if I can find something similar.

So I input this:

Shane Poh from Singapore, Shane Pow, Shane Ping, Shane Pong….whatever surname that could possibly start with the stupid P…

And now, here it is…

Ladies and gentlemen…

May I present to you..( drum roll)…

SHANE POW !!!!

Top finalist of ManHunt Singapore? How could i be so insensitive about this !!

HUH???  2013 - Recruit Diaries (阿兵新传) Really??????

Until i saw this....

Shane Pow's realgirlfriend....

Stop. Not interested to look at his photos anymore.

Tell me he’s not cute. I’ll give you the permission to slap me in the face.

OK. It's time to sleep. Stop dreaming. Nights!

Sunset Bar and Infinity pool @ Tanjung Aru (KK) by Shangri-La

Have been on hiatus ( as you can see the last was few weeks ago ) because obviously not only for me but for everyone at the beginning of year is always the hectic first quarter you can hardly breath or escape from job. Well for this, no long story, not lot of words. I'll just highlight the most important parts that might be useful for anyone who wanted to find out more about this place.
And this is my first time going to KK.
The only two reasons me flying to Tanjung Aru Resort by Shangri-La (Kota Kinabalu) are:

1) The infinity pool
2) Sun set bar

The two unique selling points of the resort.
It was supposed to be another solo trip but then good things are meant to be shared so i jio another girlfriend of mine ( then she jio her friend so ended up three of us ) decided to escape from the hectic city for a while to see if this place as amazing as how the website describes.

Ok now, look at the infinity pool that i took with my camera.
The wind is too strong for people to enjoy the beach walk, sun tanning, swim, and to enjoy wearing bikini. Don't believe? try taking off your slippers and lie completely horizontal with the coolest shades you brought on the beach chair for a few seconds, your slippers confirm fly away.

Another side of the beach

The famous infinity pool taken on my camera. Awesome. 

Second, Sun set bar.

The spectacular sea and sunset view with acoustic live band!

Operating hours : 11am - 11pm

Happy hours: 3pm - 5.30 pm  then  7pm to 11pm (buy one free one for certain beverages)

Me : Hello i would like to reserve a table for 3 people at 5.30pm in your bar.

Him: Uhm....sorry ma'am our bar is first come first serve basis, you can definitely get a table if you come at around 4pm.

Me : It's too early for me what about if i come around 5pm?

Him: Sorry ma'am the busiest hours normally will be around 5 onwards i just afraid you can get a seat when you arrive....and if you want to reserve a table we will collect RM200 from you for the reservation fee and this is non-refundable.

The highlights :

GO find a seat around 4, ( plenty of seats for you to choose ) if you don't want to end up with no table or a worse spot for sunset.

Reservation fee will be RM200 if you want to reserve a table in sunset bar.

Last thing, staffs there are extremely friendly.

Prices are above average ( as expected ). Finger foods, champagnes, wines, beers, mocktails, softdrinks and juices, Gin and Vodkas, Whiskeys, Long/Short/Vintage/Connoisseurs drinks are all available at here. Are you an alcoholic? This place confirm feels like heaven to you. 

Make sure you bring at least 100, ok lah, 100 is quite enough for 2 persons otherwise confirm jialat like myself. It's okay. We can still use credit card instead. Cheh...show off..LOL

That outfit for the evening. I didn't bring lotsa clothes and all thanks to Wawah for those cute tops.

Just an idea on the pricing

Sausages. How much? Take a wild guess.

A whopping 34 for such portion. Couldn't believe the prices this bar had the nerve to charge lol.

Waiting for the sunset

Romantic siol

That's me posing for the photo.

Look at the coconut tree, imagine how strong the wind was.

That's me and Ann. 

Quite epic. Just realized she was standing on her toes for the photo. LOL

The first time we meet and become good friends instantly. And i love her. She is sweet, awesome, good sense of humor, most importantly, single and available. Grab it while it's hot!

Followed by some random shots around the area.

Something nice to end up the day.

One last selfie to end the post. The fav place for all girls to take selfie. 

Bye !