Monday, January 20, 2014

Things you should stop doing in your 20s

Someone sent me a link few days ago about 25 things you will regret doing in your life I find it very interesting and might be useful for most of my friends so i pick a few from 25 and have it translated into english. To make sure i don't screw the meaning i have it copied down (mandarin words) at the last of each and every of my translation.
To read the full list you can on the link below:
人生最不值得你去做的事


Stop wasting time on people that's not worth it
Life's too short for you to waste time on people who don't appreciate and don't accept who you are. A person who treasures you will not make you feel like you'r burdening them, instead they will make room for you and let you feel like you're wanted in their life. And also, stop holding on something that makes you unhappy.Sometimes, giving up is the best option to find back yourself and wait for the right one who have their heart fully open for you. And also, try not to mix with the negative people, those who always criticize on your flaws and look down on you because a best friend would never do this, instead, they will offer their helping hand and strong enough to lift you up whenever you fall.

不要把時間浪費在錯誤的人身上。
人生短暫,所以你不該把你的寶貴歲月與壓榨你幸福的人分享。假如別人真的需要你,他們自會騰出一片空間留給你。有的時候我們無須苦苦掙扎,放棄也是種選擇。永遠都不要報希望於老是瞧低你的那個人。而且,要記住:真正的朋友總會在你最需要幫助的時候出現在你的身旁,而那些在你輝煌騰達時結交於你的人卻未必是你真正的朋友。
人生最不值得你去做的事


Stop living in denial. When life throws you a curve ball, accept it, bear through it and take it as a lesson
Stop pretending like it isn't hurt. No matter how difficult it is you must be willing to face the painful truths. No doubt the intense pain is killing from inside out but those are the painful experiences that shape you a person you are today. There's no success without failure. A kid stumbles and falls for numerous time before he learns how to walk. "You will be okay", always remind yourself. Accept the failure and take time to grieve and accept that nothing can change the fact with any emotional decisions. Don't rush anything, take it step by step and don't afraid to fall again because that's what a life should be, no? When things get tough, be honest to yourself, accept it, and face it appropriately because it eventually taught you a valuable lesson and make you a better person in future. 

不要逃避問題。直面挫折,挺過去。
但我也知道,這一點都不容易。世界上沒有人能夠做到輕鬆自如地應對每一次困境。沒有人不是經歷了一次又一次的沮喪、難過、傷痛和挫敗才最終解決掉問題的。所以,我們不要急於求成,要一步一步地去解決問題。因為,那才是生活的意義之所在——面對困難、然後耐心地去學習、適應並解決難題。所有這些經歷最終塑造了現在的你。


Stop lying to yourself
Always be true and honest to yourself because you are the only person who knows youself well. Get yourself prepared and seize the opportunity when it comes to you. Stop pretending like you know/don't know anything. Try once to believe yourself and stop comparing yourself to others because we are all created differently with our own unique way.

不要欺騙自己。
你大可以欺騙世人,但唯一一個不容許你欺騙的人就是你自己。只有當我們抓住機遇的時候,我們的生活才會有所改善。而要做到這點,第一步便是真誠地對待自己
人生最不值得你去做的事


Stop living in the past
Make present counts. Staying stuck in the past doesn't make your life any better. Let go of the past because it's gone and nothing you can do to rewind it back and change. Focusing on current moment to stop missing out the good things happening around you. Forgive your past is to free yourself from mental suffering and start appreciating the good things that's coming your way.

不要活在過去。
假如你老是沉淪在過去的陰影中,你也就無法開始新的人生。
人生最不值得你去做的事

Stop wasting your time explaining yourself to others
You don't have to explain yourself because at the end no one but yourself truly knows yourself the most. Be true to yourself. Just do whatever you think it's right for you. Stop being a people pleaser worrying what other people think of you. Just learn how to control your emotions and shrug it off whenever there's something bad you heard about youself. You can't stop people from being judgmental because no matter what people will still talk behind your back. Just remember, a true friend is always the one who fully accepts who you are and believes in you.

不要把時間浪費在向別人解釋你自己上。
你的朋友不需要你作任何解釋也能理解你,而你的敵人永遠都不會相信你說的話。所有,你的內心告訴你什麼事是正確的,那就去做吧。


Stop being a perfectionist
Things will only turn out perfect with considerable amount of hard work. It doesn't require you to be smart, all you need to do is work hard and never give up trying. You will never achieve anything when you're just waiting for the right timing and perfect idea to start with.

不要追求事事完美。
現實世界不偏愛完美主義者,它只回報那些最終能夠完成任務的人。
人生最不值得你去做的事


Stop pretending like everything is okay
Life is full of ups and downs. It's okay to cry and allow yourself some time to grieve before you stand back up and continue the war. Just make sure you don't backslide. It's a huge waste of proving yourself to everyone that you're strong and smart to overcome the difficulties. After all we are all human and we need a break sometimes.

不要假裝一切都很順利。
感到挫敗或灰心喪氣是很正常的一件事。你不必假裝自己很堅強,而且你根本就沒有必要向別人證明一切都如我所願。你也不用太在意別人是怎麼看待你的,想哭就哭吧,流淚也有益於你的健康。越快釋放壓抑的情緒,快樂就會越快降臨。
人生最不值得你去做的事


Be realistic and stop trying to be someone you're not
Stop trying to become somebody else in an attempt to have people love you and respect you, just be yourself. We often forget that we are actually stronger than we thought we can be. The truth is that there are a lot of prettier women out there, smarter, taller, slimmer, richer and of course younger but they are not and never be you and vice versa. Again, care less and Just be yourself. And the right ones (relationship or friendship) are always those who love and accept you for who you are. 

不要再幻想成為那個“不是你自己”的你。
人生的一大挑戰就是埋葬真實的自己並渴望著自己能成為其他的人。總有人比你漂亮、也總有人比你聰明、比你年輕的人更多得是,但是他們都不是你。不要成為其他人,而是要做自己,這樣人們就會喜歡你。而且那個對的人只愛真實的你。
人生最不值得你去做的事


Don't be afraid to make mistakes.
Mistake is a part of life. Stop letting the fear of making mistakes holding you back from doing anything. 50% of something is better than 100% of nothing. Failure is the steps that create success. 
 "It’s better to have a life full of small failures that you learned from, rather than a lifetime filled with the regrets of never trying."By Marc and Angel Hack Life. Words.

不要害怕犯錯誤。
勇敢去嘗試,即使犯了一些錯誤,也要比什麼事也不做強吧!每一次成功都要經歷過失敗的洗禮,每一次失敗都會送你走上成功的殿堂。到最後,令你感到悔恨不已的不是你做過的事,而是那些你從未做過的事。
人生最不值得你去做的事


Stop thinking and start doing!
Dare to make the first step and stop worrying things that haven't happened. Focus on what truly matters. Stop coming out with numerous reasons before you take an action. Just do it! Remember that clock never stops ticking. Seize the opportunity when it comes to you. 

不要再猶豫不決了。
不要總是思前顧後,否則你就給帶來了根本就不存在的問題。先分析情況,然後果斷地採取行動。你無法改變你不想面對的現實。取得進展就意味著承擔風險。不邁出第一步,你就無法走出第二步,生活就是這樣的。
人生最不值得你去做的事


Do not blindly start a relationship.
I'd rather be single with a peace of mind,
Than in a relationship stressed out all the time,
I just need a bit of time.
A snippet of poem i wrote a year ago that relates it all.
Always believe that right person will come at the right time. Forgive those who have wronged you, 
Always remember this, if you hadn't left me the first place i wouldn't have met the right one of my life.

不要盲目地開始一段新感情。
戀情需得謹慎選擇。我們寧可獨處也不願與不適合的人交往。沒多大必要著急的。假如一件事是註定發生的話,那它一定會發生的——在對的時間,在緣分的牽引下與對的人相遇。
人生最不值得你去做的事


Stop being jealous
Be grateful for who you are what you have and you will end up having more. Your happiness can be ripped away by jealously if you allow it. Focus on what you got and start appreciating it because it could all been taken away the next second.

不要嫉妒別人。
嫉妒其實就是在計數別人的幸福卻忽視了自己的幸福。你應當這樣想:“我擁有哪些令別人羨慕不已的東西呢?”
人生最不值得你去做的事


Challenge Yourself!
Life is too short to live with regrets. Go for your dream and make changes in your life. Remember, you only live once. Dare to dream, dare to do!

不要走阻力最小的人生道路。
人生不易,尤其是當你有了一個偉大的夢想的時候,你將來會遭遇到的困難會更大、更多。不要去做沒有挑戰性的事,去做些一鳴驚人的事吧。
人生最不值得你去做的事

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