No one you can't live without

In one relationship, when one decided to let go, yes, no doubt it feels awful, but the other half should learn how to smile and move on as everything happens for a reason. The break up often caused by the deep feelings of resentment built over the years or the unacceptable behavior at the point when you're burning up with anger and then, it explodes. But when one decides to make the first move to through with their partner, he/she is already there expecting the huge consequences and the excruciating pain to deal with.

As things fell apart he/she might thrilled with the freedom of living their own life, but in most cases they realized it was a mistake and regretting the breakup right after they pause for a moment and look deeper within the relationship they have built together for quite a number of years/months.

If the breakup is your decision, you should take responsibility for your own action and know how to cope with the pain appropriately but not regretting your decision and going back to break his/her heart once again. In this case you're only care about yourself. The moment you decided to bail, everything is already broken and gone. Go, just leave, don't look back. Acknowledge, Accept, and Allow yourself to grieve for real healing. Because after all, you are the one who put an end to it.

There are so many fish in the sea, more than just you and him/her, just keep swimming if you come across the one who doesn't suit you until you found one. And you will, it just a matter of time before you find the right one.

And always remember, there's no one you can't live without in this world.

You're not born or created in a pair.

Wa,thumbs up lei. This is actually written by a friend of mine in mandarin character and i have it translated into english so that she wont blame me for the copyright LOL! Credits to Crystal Soh. A very meaningful reminder for those who once failed in a relationship. Hopefully i didnt mess up the real original meaning with the translation.