Friendship

Received a call from this sei dong(死党）!!!!! As usual he teased me from the beginning of the conversation till the end and the funniest part is when he asked where am I what am I doing and after I told him I'm getting ready to go visit all my relatives for angpow he threw some bad words to me (his style la) and said: walao! 不丢脸啊！酱大还去别人家拿红！lol lol! I don't see what's wrong lo! Hahahahaha. I just enjoy going out together in a group with cousins because of the freaking weird reason, they are all super tall and i feel super safe having them around.No joke people would turn their attention to us whenever we are out on the street in a group. I'm around 173, my cousins ( all boys) are like 190 liddat, and i always wonder how they can grow that tall when they don't play sports. 

Before I stray off the topic, let's talk a bit about this friend of mine. We are so close since first year of college. Soon we hit it off and became good friend to each and people often misunderstand the relationship between us. Not gonna blame because 90% of my time they will see us hanging around together reason being, he rented a house just a street across and he used to always offer his ride when we need to go and back from college, not forgetting yumcha at night and talk about just anything that came to our head. We close until the extent I was allowed to drive his car when he didn't use it. The first person I always think of is him whenever I was in any troubles and I only share my innermost thoughts with him because not only a good supporter he can be to me, he is also a very excellent breakup buddy! ( a person who able to come out with all sorta ideas and don't mind helping you to make you forget ur ex) I'm so myself when I'm with him. I can swear and curse all the bad words and act however rude I want bcoz i basically learn all these from him.

 After diploma we ended up in the same hotel (not before I introduced him to my manager) and again, we spent our time together like 24/7 (work and yumcha) until the day I started my first relationship with a boy I was truly in love with..........

He was there to give me a helping hand with my surprise idea of birthday celebration for my ex. Drove me to the place earlier for some preparation and stuff. He was there to organize a trip to make the relationship of me and my x closer. He was there to speak with my ex when we had a big fight and he did a lot more than I can think of. He is indeed a very very good friend of mine and I am his best friend too I can tell. We both are just.....a living proof that a boy and a girl can become best friends too! Our friendship is so strong since the first day we met until now, and still counting! But since the day my ex wasn't happy about this whole idea of me seeing him as an important friend I tried to less meeting up with him and didn't dare to pick up his phone whenever my ex was around. My ex would got so angry whenever he texted me with some common casual question like: "hey have you taken my notebook by mistake? Cb please return me tomorow ah! " Sooner as he realized he was too disappointed that I chose my ex over the friendship of so many years. I know... But I didn't want to run into any risk of kana scolded for no reasons ( my ex would scold me for the whole scene if I talk with any guy especially him) and so, when I flew to England, he flew to Singapore and started a new career over there. That's when we almost lost touch and never speak to each until the day...... I broke up....finally. 

And strangely he wasn't the first person I want to tell in this hardest time of life, he has been giving me lotsa advices over the years and I never once took it seriously until I got myself hurt so badly I almost die. Somehow, he knew it. He didn't call nor text to ask. He is smart enuf to wait me for the open line. I burst into tears again knowing he still there for me despite the fact he knew my x was far important to me than the friendship we've built over so many years once. " Ooi cibai, die already ma, if not yet I can help to buy you a knife just tell me." Haha. He always call me cibai idk why. Already almost 3 years we never meet. Thinking how happy we were with a gang of rowdy friends back in first 3 years of college how badly I hope I can rewind back and I wouldn't have met my ex and would've have gotten myself so hurt if the time stays at that moment. That said, nothing last longer than friendship. I still have him as my best friend even after I lost the one I once thought it was precious to me that nothing can ever compare. Wrong. It was a huge mistake the moment I decided to ditch the friendship, someone who cares more about me than a person who kept telling me how hard how deep he fell for me and will never do anything to hurt me.You can feel it from the bottom of heart, the person who truly cares and loves you. So stop ignoring your friends when you're in a relationship, because they are always your backbone to support you through thick and thin. And one last thing, friendship does exist in between a boy and a girl.

Was blogging this when the rest gambling. I don't even know how to "chor di" and I feel like me kana boycott liddat. Sad lar. Anyway, happy Chinese New Year again!